Dating a older guy


At the end of the day, I need to do what’s best for me.Here are a list of pros and cons to consider if you decide to date older: Whether it’s in his career, knowledge acquired overtime, relationships or even in the bedroom, this man knows what he’s doing and knows what he wants.And don’t call him an “old man,” even if you’re joking; it will only make matters worse!Personally and professionally, he has one up on you and may think only he has a right to call the shots in the relationship.He loves spending time with you, but may want to call it an early night instead of going to the next big party.Try to find the balance between going out and staying in.Stay in for a couple nights by making dinner and watching a movie and doing one extreme outing during the week, even if it’s just for a bit.



Even though there have been those people who have judged, you’ll be surprised that there are more people on your side than you think.I have nothing against guys my age; I have tried dating them, but I have constantly come across the following:- They’re not ambitious enough, or they don't have a go-getter attitude.- They’re not financially stable.- They still want to date around.- They have had baby mama or ex-wife drama.- They don’t have their sh*t together.I’m not saying every guy in my age group is like this, but overall, my personal experience hasn’t been fulfilling for me.I started my media career at age 9 at a community TV station and my ambition level went up from there.