Dating after your husband dies
Ultimately, every widow is different and the only person whose opinion matters is her own. Or better yet, they sit in the comfort of their own home, surf the web, and hunt you through your status updates and Facebook photos you get tagged in. Yes, that was us in the Dominican, frolicking on the beach. While I’d like to believe the best in everyone, that they are merely looking out for me, I am not so naive. I am waiting for the proverbial poop to hit the fan. They can simply spy through the blinds across the street or stalk her house at all hours of the night pretending they were “just stopping by to say hi”.But other people feel the need get out there and meet anew partner. Emotionally you might still be feeling very vulnerable. An emotional rejection can plunge you back into the depths of despair.
So dating after you've been widowed is something to be treated with extreme caution.
But then along comes the first anniversary like an enormous boulder to rub salt into the wound that is probably just beginning to heal.
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