You turn to your guy and look into those beautiful eyes. And then you ask, "So, when do you think your divorce is going to be finalized? Some people have a rule that they won't date people who aren't officially divorced. People think if someone isn't divorced, there's a chance they might reconcile with their ex. Of course, every guy and his situation are different, but in general terms, I think I can safely say I know a little bit about how the divorced guy thinks. Here are 10 questions you should never ask someone you've dated for less than a year: 1. So the irreconcilable differences just fail to get mentioned during those thousands hours reciting poetry, breaking out in dance and following the moon together as they chat on the phone. Boy meets girl, falls in love, starts a relationship…Somewhere along the road, the girl notices there’s a trait in the guy she doesn’t like, but she compromises, and compromises and compromises…according to the sunk cost fallacy, she goes ahead with the marriage because she has invested so much of her time, emotions and (in the case of a conservative society that frowns upon dating) maybe even her reputation.
Some women might do that and it’s okay if it was her choice.In this story, she expects him to stop flirting with other women, start respecting women, while he expects her to stay slim and fit and beautiful even after the baby.Both of them fail to understand there are things in the boy’s behavior that are fundamental and would be difficult to change. Especially in dating after divorce, people don't get engaged three months into a relationship.
She is also the author of the comedic novel, FREE GIFT WITH PURCHASE about life after divorce. Pilossoph is a weekly business features reporter and columnist for Sun-Times Media.
Unfortunately, when people don't wait, that's when divorce number two happens.