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Things have been going well, and I give a lot of credit to what I have learned from your book, emails and this site.However, this is not something I have ever done before and I am having a hard time with the idea of juggling.Multiple dating makes dating messier even though the people that do it often think it makes it easier because it keeps them out of a relationship, let’s them check out lots of options at once instead of doing one person at a time, but it can also be a protective measure for ensuring that you don’t get close enough to anyone.Really multiple dating is just a code term for: 1) Keeping your options open.2) Being afraid of commitment because you’re afraid of getting hurt. Some people keep their options open because they want to shag around, they think there’s plenty of fish in the sea, and they also worry that someone who perfectly meets their criteria may be out there somewhere and are afraid of ‘settling’.



I am trying not to let things move too fast physically or emotionally, but they both seem very interested and I just don’t know what to do.Making a decision about a guy is no different than any other decision.You weigh your pros and cons, you do your cost-benefit analysis, you use a little logic and a little emotion, and then make a largely arbitrary choice without knowing if you’re right. I don’t want to get into a relationship too quickly?