Because one or other of the couple who start out in a casual relationship is nearly always bound to get in too deep and take it more seriously than the other.And I am sorry if this goes right against the feminist grain, but it is nearly always the woman because that's the way we are made.If you decide you both have stronger feelings, it’ll happen organically.When a close friend is dating someone you don’t like, what do you do?You don’t want miss out on not getting to know someone amazing just because you have a sex buddy. You want to keep yourself from getting emotionally attached, so sleeping next to your FWB—and walking up next to them—is extremely intimate. Once you become a stage 5 clinger, the fun is done. If they don’t already know your “friend,” don’t introduce them to your family or friends.Say goodnight, take a shower, and get into bed feeling relaxed, satisfied, and totally comfortable with the fact that they went home. You don’t want people in your life to start nagging you about “what’s going on with you guys?! They’re allowed to date, tinder stalk, or Facebook friend anyone they wants.
The truth is, when it comes to dating and relating, there really are very few black and white answers.What’s to like about the idea having no-strings sex with someone you like and respect, but don’t necessarily want a future with?However, friends with benefits also come with a few asterisks. If you start to blur the lines, you’re opening a big can of worms.Perish the thought he should start talking divorce and a new life together when you have just come to your senses and seen him in his unappealing true colours.