She recieves daily faxes from suitors the world over and she knows the exact opening hours and addresses of the Chinese restaurants that serve imported lobster Szechuan style, which goes extremely well with a light, yet fruity French white wine, slightly chilled, and remember to tip the waiter 10%. You are different than all the nice smelling young men she's known. Nor has she been busted for possession by the same cop in Alabama, dropped out of the same University, belonged to your voodoo cult, nor ever watched The Brady Bunch. You can't tell a Hungarian girl that you are a tourist. And while the local Joe gets to home after two dates, you will have to wait longer. You will have to compose yourself with a lot more chilvalry and charm than Western girls demand. You compliment her looks, her clothes, ask attentively about her day at work. At the same time, all this hoopla is designed to get you a few old fashioned rewards.You have to come up with something more permanent, like environmental protection engineer or journalist (a perennial favorite around our office.) You will also need a suit of clothes that could not possibly have ever seen the inside of a backpack, and a real pair of shoes. The waiting period is to see if you are "serious." That means that you are either staying in Hungary long term, or you are really, really rich. You will open doors for your date, but you will always enter a restaurant or bar first. You are expected to be a gentleman, and gentlemen are not expected to do their own laundry.LT | Feb 16, 2005 hey thats the perfect example as to why americans make bad tourist.They need more lessons in cross cultural behavior!!!You must be writing this in pain of blue balls, as you couldn't get laid by a Hungarian girl.
Alex | Jul 18, 2005 hey watever hungarians are f'ing hotties and if u can get one more power too u ooh and i have a large penis thats all bye penis | Jul 19, 2005 But you do also run the danger of your Hungarian girlfriend treating you the same as she would a Hungarian man, no matter how exotic you are. I don't want to slag anyone off; just be cautious). Woyse | Aug 1, 2005 I think Dork's essay is spot-on!leo | Jan 24, 2006 Some of that stuff he said was correct, like entering retail outlets first as you are the one paying. Girls have to be choosy, as when the commit they give their body/mind and their future child.Apart from that i'm not sure early days for me to comment. This girl has treated me alot better than any other English girls, cooking meals, making packed lunches ect. Do you not think that it is just a more traditional way??Americans suck | Jun 20, 2005 This guy doesn't know the ABC's about Hungarian women, must have got lucky with 70 yr old and blabbering like an idiot!!!