I am a christian dating a muslim
I think the basic rule about dating is always first to date someone who lives in your area presently because when you speak to people long distance, someone you have never met, whether muslim or not, the chances of them being the wrong person is relatively high.As for the first relationship with a non-Muslim, it is not permissible to pray istikhaarah concerning it, because istikhaarah can only be done with regard to things that are permissible, not things that are haraam. So you must immediately cut off all ties with him and get rid of everything that may remind you of him or pull you back into that relationship. What you mentioned, about him only having married his first wife recently, is not an impediment to marrying him if he is suitable for marriage, and it is not an excuse.
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