If it’s come up recently between you and your spouse, take heart. Read more Series The parallel between romantic love and God’s relationship with His people is a theme that runs all the way through Scripture, and it has a great deal to teach us about the spiritual dimension of marriage.Three years ago, I fell madly in love with this lively, fascinating guy (plays in a band, popular, surprises you at work with chocolate, picks you wild flowers type of guy).We had similar thoughts and passions and were able to understand each other incredibly well.He could read me like no one else, inspired me, and made me think and laugh and cry.When he dumped me, I felt my heart would never mend, and three years later, I still struggle with that relationship loss.I was hoping he would want me back some time later when another guy was interested in me.
Believe it or not, this is a fairly common question.Chemistry is, I think, a polite way of saying sexual attraction.And biblically, that's something we're supposed to save for marriage.You may not have been having sex, but it sounds like you were acting married. It's more like a divorce than merely deciding to stop dating.
Given his decisions and the fruit he's bearing, it sounds like a blessing that it didn't end in marriage.
We had dynamic "chemistry" — the unexplainable connection that movies and songs are made of.