Also, another custom that families talk about in ‘khastegari’ called as ‘Mehrieh’. After this meeting, if the families especially the boy and girl want to know each other more, a period starts we called ‘Namzadi’.‘Mehrieh’ is an amount of money, usually a big money more than $100000 that if the couple divorced, the guy should give to his wife. In this period, the couple is officially in the relationship and try to know more each other.The fist category are ‘religions’ families who believed that their sons or daughters should not have any relationships before marriage.
In these families, once a boy and a girl fall in love, they will still have ‘Khstegari’ and ‘Namzadi’ customs.
During this ceremony, the guests and the couple dance together and have a lot of fun and usually the ceremony end up with a dinner. In this ceremony, the couple invites almost all of their families for the ceremony and guests give their valuable gifts to the couple.