Not take dating so seriously

It’s a problem that will require all of our courage, confidence and creativity to solve. They end up settling down for some gay ass hipster boy or Justin Bieber or man-bun douche.It’s a problem that affects many of our brothers in Christ—it might even be affecting you. My father has many memories of giving the cute girl from youth group a ride home on the handlebars of his bicycle, while my grandfather had something of a reputation for dancing with all the eligible young ladies at Christian fundraisers. Here’s the 100% HONEST truth from a man’s perspective. Let’s say a man is part of a church community containing several single women around his age.Women are frequently more reciprocative, but men often seem me, by having nice shit, or looking good, or pulling in bank. I’ve dated a few guys who want kids, so I’ve devoted some time pondering what men who want kids need. But, they almost never take a look at my life and ask themselves “what is Emma missing, and how could I fill that role? And, I dunno, maybe it’s like, co-dependent of me or something, but when I don’t do it my relationships don’t work. It’s probably all going to go to waste when I have a kid on my own, but maybe someone will find some of it useful: Like, I know I said some bleak shit about men ever getting to have kids, but I also feel like if you devote any conscious effort in this direction whatsoever, you’ll be ahead of 90% of men. That said, I’ve devoted a lot of time and energy to the problem of dating, and I’m still single, so you know. These women(girls) play games in church all the time and reject guys constantly, then they hit on the same very few douche bag dudes in church and compete for the say top 10% and wonder why they all feel insecure and cant get a “real man”. Then they pick some worldly asshole, while they reject the real Godly humble men.

Historically, nearly always a higher percentage of women have kids than men do.Which is why it’s that the men I date are totally checked out on this front.I mean, ok I know men don’t have as sharp a biological clock as women do, but a) they do have one, and b) if you can’t get a hot 20 year old babe in your 20s or 30s, why do you think it’ll be easier in your 50s?Supposedly, throughout human history, 40% of men have reproduced while 80% of women have.

And, while those numbers are surely much more equal in the US today, I’m still guessing fewer men have kids than women.

Fortunately, a ‘Jimmy Lipton’ in the comments was kind enough to enlighten everyone what was actually happening: Christian women(white ones mostly) have become very useless, because they have this super perfect version of a man that makes them feel good all the time, never saying the wrong thing.

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