“And when you reach my age and can have that kind of connection with someone and then see him look at you with want in his eyes well let me tell you that’s the best buzz.” * Dave's name has been changed to protect his identity.Have you considered dating a younger man, but are afraid of getting your heart broken, being humiliated and ultimately dumped for a younger woman? Our culture’s discomfort with reversing the norm of the younger woman-older man dynamic may come from a deep-rooted evolutionary instinct driving women to choose the older, wiser, more powerful alpha male over the untested young buck.“Most of my friends are younger than me,” she said. “I work hard all week and spend time when I can clubbing and dancing, which I guess isn’t what most women nearing 60 do.“But it keeps me healthier and happier.” And while some older ladies might feel be petrified of taking their clothes off in front of a younger man, Janice says it is the best confidence boost.“One night I was dancing the night away at a club with my friends when I bumped into this super fit bloke and the chemistry was electric.“We ended up snogging on the dance floor and exchanged numbers. “I was chuffed and what I thought would just be a fling turned into a two-year relationship.” Once Janice’s appetite for toyboys began, she joined online dating website
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“But after Brendan died on February 10 2001 that barrier in my mind just disappeared and I began to date men in their early twenties.“But I have to chat with them for a while before I’ll meet face to face. “He called to say he was running late and to push it back an hour, but I could hear people in the background.“I asked how he was making his way over and he answered..bus.“One of my screen names is ‘cubhunter’ because in our world a cub is a man who wants an older woman.
“People say it’s because they want a mother figure but what I do with a toyboy is not mothering.” However, despite being in high demand for dates, receiving hundreds of messages from men, Janice says that she has strict criteria before she’ll agree to go out with a ‘cub’.
She added: “I love tall men, over six-foot, with dark hair and fit bodies. "I’m not interested in no strings attached sex or booty calls. "And so many men tell me that they were too scared to approach older women until they started using the website." And although dating a younger man does have its perks, Janice admits there have been a few dodgy encounters she puts down to age – or lack of it.