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He has as much right to have a happy family as anyone else and if he had married his ex GF, then her son's would have been step brothers to my oldest.Yes it meant I got less money for my son but so what, he is not a meal ticket and his dad pays his way in our child's upkeep.He may choose to keep paying the same anyway, but I think the required amount does reduce because the child counts as a dependant, regardless of if the child is biologically related. Surely its for the parents of the child to pay for her upkeep and not an unrelated 'step parent' thats been going out with the childs mother for a few months?I really hope this isnt the case as i will be furious if it is.

The csa website doesnt give any indication which doesnt suprise me and it costs a fortune to ring them every time i do! If he is paying privately now, you would be better to keep it that way and not go down the route of the CSA if you can help it. Id planned to keep to a private arrangement for the next few years but (money grabbing as this sounds) once his other 2 kids have reached 19, i'd thought about going through the csa then as i'd get a lot more money for my son, when he only had the one to pay for.I have on many an occasion spent vast amounts of MY own money on my husbands oldest children where the money grabbing mother has spent his 280 maintaince on buying herself new clothes, hair coloured and cut etc etc but sent the boys over in mid December with holes in their shoes and no coat, as she calms she has no money (just one example of many), so with your logic, I should not have spent nearly 200 of my own money to buy the things they needed as I did not give birth you them and their dad had already paid his maintainance to their mother and was penniless until January ?I also get maintenance from my ex husband and did not mind in the smallest bit when he supported the two children his ex GF had.My ex has never decreased my maintenance, I said to him, it wasn't our sons fault, your a liar or a cheat x The CSA give a protection % of the income of the non resident parent.

My husband has two children from his ex wife and I have a child from my ex husband. He had 15% protected when we just had my son and it went up to 20% when our son was born.

He is currently paying both me and his ex wife, child maintenance through a private arrangement and NOT through the CSA.