Sg expat dating


I would entertain, pay and generally be the archetypal gentleman, and I loved every minute of it. They also appear to have different ideas about what "dating" means.Then, inexplicably, about two months in, she decided she wasn’t looking for a relationship. You see, I had been assuming, in my Western, driven, "I’m on a mission"-way, that we were going out.



Not unless I decide to cross without the guidance of the green man, a crime against humanity here in Singapore. My past is littered with examples of unrequited love, pointless pining and disastrous misjudgments.We dated for a while but decided that friendship was best.“I like to have friend who no want the sex,” she said. The girl from Shanghai with a voice like Tweetie Pie – four foot something and convinced the world was full of stalkers. The Westerner, tall and pretty – a great French meal and a few failed attempts to follow up. The great Singaporean hope – I took her to the toy museum and she loved it.She stared at me in horror as the word "hotel" headed through her ears.

You see, people may be very trusting here but there is an underlying assumption held by some that most Westerners are just here for the sex.

But I realised that things weren’t right and we had little in common, so that soon ended in tears.