Please Note: Comments posted to the comments area below WILL NOT be approved for display if they contain personally identifiable information such as Telephone Numbers, KIK ID’s, Snap Chat ID’s, Skype ID’s, Yahoo ID’s, Email Addresses, Web Links to Facebook etc.Today on the internet there are a vast number of chat rooms, forums and message boards all targeted to those with an interest in the Dominant submissive (D/s) Lifestyle.Last, but certainly not least learn to trust your instincts a bit.If you've stumbled into a chat room, forum, or for that matter, a real life event, if you aren't comfortable there, if others tend to make you feel uncomfortable or uneasy, it's time to analyze those feelings. It may be that for whatever reason, that environment is not for you.No, Dominants are not all Teddy Bears, nor are they all the image of a harsh, overbearing Viking so don't start looking at Dominants with a preconceived notion of what every Dominant or Master is like.Just as you are very unique and different, so are they.Expect to be welcomed to the chat room environment by the other submissives and slaves that are about; but become a bit concerned if none will step up to the plate and respond to your request for information or protocols about the environment.Tend to be a bit on guard if suddenly everyone seems to be pushing you towards one particular Dominant as being "perfect for you".
Just as they'll know that it may take time to establish the trust needed to establish a rapport with anyone, Dominant or submissive.There is no one way of guaranteeing that a legitimate submissive or slave won't mistakenly end up in an environment that just isn't what she thought it was, but there are some steps a submissive or slave should take, or at least consider before she sets out in search of a submissive or slave chat room or forum.The first and most obvious, but hardest to do, slow down!They're not going to offer ultimatums such as, "if you don't do this, you're obviously not a submissive or slave".
Most importantly, they are going to have a knowledge and understanding of the most basic cornerstones of any Dominant submissive or Master slave relationship, which are Communication, Trust, Respect and Honor(honesty).
You may be a submissive or slave, or at least think you want to be, but that doesn't make you just anyone's submissive or slave.