Stop dating emotionally unavailable men

This way, they will not be "stalked" or hounded by men who seem themselves to be insecure and who "need" a woman to feel secure. Men seem to be a lot more needy than women these days.In my experience, men become almost obsessed, which can be very tiring.Even though their behavior leads to a host of problems and indicates self-esteem issues, these women aren't fools.They actually have a strength that they often don’t stop to think about: perseverance.Women who fall for unavailable men usually feel that they are more committed to the relationship than the men are.These women usually feel that the men have all the power and control in the relationship.Sadly, without such proof, their self-worth is left hanging in the wind.

In my book, I use the term "emotional chasing" because that's exactly what it is: a chase.This tends not to happen with men who are unavailable emotionally, because they are available for exactly what the woman needs. Just make sure you're never lusting after a married man with children.It's bad enough to go after someone else's husband, but when there's children involved, the adultery bimbo sets herself up for really, really bad karma.Most women don’t seek out or sustain interest in unavailable men, but more women than any of us would like to admit do.

I actually saw this behavior so frequently in my private practice that I decided to write a book about it, which is called .

I guess it's the slippery slope of the Southpark generation.) AGREE.....