Follow her on Twitter, Youtube and one her blog, It's Akilah Obviously.I know I'm about to open a can of worms with this post, so I'm going to tread carefully.These are all conversations we should have, but they are societal, systemic conversations.When they turn to my individual relationship (as they have on occasion in the past), I am less open to talking.Though I date smart enough humans to not ever be asked to be the voice of my entire race, I still get asked how I feel about rappers using the N-word, and who has access to it.This conversation doesn't have to be uncomfortable if you're certain of your stance, but if you waiver, they will be forever confused and your weighing-in on the subject can save them from physical harm and embarrassment in the future.3.To ask me to justify or defend my ten-year relationship with my husband along racial lines is unacceptable, and I won't play.That said, it is my personal relationship that made me react the way I did to this infographic.
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A lot of people on the Internet like to weigh-in negatively about interracial relationships and why they happen.Because of this, I have dated quite a few White guys, and while there are similarities when dating any man, there are still some small cultural quirks that never go unnoticed when you’re with a White dude. Trust me, while it gets easier to explain, it doesn't ever stop needing to be explained.2.They don't want to say the N-word, but they do want to talk about why some people do.It ostensibly eliminates Black men from the pool who are not interested in Black women, but it does so by eliminating the 8.5% of Black men who are married to white women. Otherwise, we're saying that married men are still eligible as potential mates.